What I Offer

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Couples Therapy

Evidence-based couples therapy for Asian and interracial couples, including dual-career couples, who feel stuck in the same fights or are slowly drifting apart. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we find the cycle that's pulling you apart and rebuild a secure, lasting connection.

My specialties:

Communication & Reconnection

For couples caught in the same fight over and over, or slowly turning into roommates. We slow the cycle down and help you reach each other again. Learn more →

Rebuilding Trust After an Affair

For couples who have decided to repair after betrayal. A structured, trauma-informed path to rebuild safety and trust. Learn more →

Life Transitions & Career Stress

For couples under pressure from demanding jobs, moving countries, new parenthood, or visa stress. We protect your relationship while life keeps changing. Learn more →

Engaged couples are welcome too. If you're planning to marry and want to build a strong foundation first, reach out and we'll talk about how I can help.

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Individual Therapy

I also see high-achieving Asian adults on their own, especially those facing career burnout, family expectations, or the stress of the immigration process. Together we look at what's driving the pressure, so you can set boundaries and feel steady again.

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Who I Work With

Dual-Career Couples

"Every conversation feels like walking on eggshells. We keep having the exact same fight over and over."

"My partner walks away every time I try to talk."

"I don't know why my partner can't stop shouting at me."

  • The Reality: Demanding careers have pulled you into a cycle of arguments and defensiveness, where both of you feel unheard.

Driven Professionals & Expats

"I've worked too hard for this visa and this job. If I slow down, I lose everything."

"If I lose my job, I lose my visa. Then what happens to us?"

  • The Reality: When your legal status (H-1B, green card) depends on your job, the fear doesn't stay at work. It comes home, and your partner feels it too.

Asian Immigrants

"I feel like I'm always disappointing someone: my partner, my parents, or myself."

"I feel guilty when I choose myself, so I always put everyone else's needs first."

  • The Reality: You're trying to balance modern relationship roles with traditional family expectations, and it's hard to honor both at once.

If these experiences sound like your life, you don't have to figure it out alone. I offer a culturally responsive space to understand what's happening between you and rebuild a secure, supportive partnership.

  • "In an insecure relationship, we cannot ask for what we need, so we demand it, or we withdraw to protect ourselves."

    By Dr. Sue Johnson

  • "No one can dance with a partner and not touch each other's raw spots. We must know what these raw spots are and be able to speak about them in a way that pulls our partner closer to us."

    By Dr. Sie Johnson

  • "Spouses must yield a part of their separate individuality to gain the mutual support and belonging of the couple subsystem."

    By Salvador Minuchin

  • "To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive—to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before."

    By Rollo May

  • "A well-functioning family is not defined by the absence of stress or conflict, but by how it handles them as it transitions through stages of growth."

    By Salvador Minuchin